Hi Friend,
The
most neglected aspect of successful investment seems to be, investors in
general underestimate the impact of understanding their own psychology and the
impact of how they react to the demands of the society as far as their investments
are concerned.
Since
childhood we are so attuned to be called “Good Boy” that all our actions,
thoughts, movements etc., are focused on getting this universal stamp of
approval from our family members, relatives, classmates and everyone else on
the street.
For the fear of losing that stamp of approval we are doing things that
we are not happy doing at all or do things that we know are sub-optimal.
This process of half-hearted approach makes us fail. Failure is not a pleasurable experience and certainly has the potential to make us unhappy.
This process of half-hearted approach makes us fail. Failure is not a pleasurable experience and certainly has the potential to make us unhappy.
Imagine
a situation where Warren Buffet has to take permission or get the approval from
his parents, uncles, aunts, sons, daughters, friends etc., before making an investment
decision!! Would he be Buffet then?
The
following two quotes from different men with different words indicate that we
better get rid of this Good Boy Syndrome to be Happy.
"I
much prefer the sharpest criticism of a single intelligent man to the
thoughtless approval of the masses" - Johannes
Kepler
“A
public-opinion poll is no substitute for thought ”
- Warren
E.Buffet
Starting on the path of happiness requires courage and following are the
words of wisdom to muster that courage,
"Courage
is the price that life exacts for granting peace" - Earhart Amelia
"Whatever
you do, you need courage. Whatever course you decide upon, there is always
someone to tell you that you are wrong. There are always difficulties arising
that tempt you to believe your critics are right. To map out a course of action
and follow it to an end requires some of the same courage that a soldier needs.
Peace has its victories, but it takes brave men and women to win them" - Emerson Ralph
Waldo
"Courage
is not simply one of the virtues, but the form of every virtue at the testing point"- Lewis ,
C.S
"When
the fight begins within himself, a man's worth something" - Robert
Browning
Happy
investing.